“Fadell has distilled his wisdom in this book, providing wildly useful mentorship in a delightfully readable set of stories.”

WALTER ISAACSON

Author & Biographer of Steve Jobs, Albert Einstein & Leonardo DaVinci

“This is the most fun—and the most fascinating—memoir of curiosity and invention that I’ve ever read.”

MALCOLM GLADWELL

Host of the Revisionist History podcast. Author of Outliers & Talking to Strangers

“Insightful. Funny. Instructive. Unvarnished. A book brimming with energy and enthusiasm to coach you through every stage of your career.”

JOANNA HOFFMAN

Ex. VP Marketing at General Magic & Member of the original Macintosh team

“Priceless advice for any young person who wants to build something great or change the world for the better.”

BEN HOROWITZ

Founding Partner, Andreessen Horowitz

“Tony Fadell distills his epic career into refreshingly candid, often contrarian advice that you can put into practice right away.”

ADAM GRANT

Author of THINK AGAIN & Host of the TED podcast WorkLife

“Tony’s insights, instincts and wisdom are essential reading and a precious gift for any inventor hungry to change the world.”

THOMAS HEATHERWICK

award winning designer & founder Heatherwick Studio

A straightforward look at the history and the art of maintaining courteous communication in an increasingly divided world.

Have you ever been in a conversation that, after volleying back and forth, ended with the words, “I’m just saying . . .”? Usually, this signals frustration, that the discussion has reached a dead end, that you haven’t made your point, and may even leave you feeling that your relationship with the other person has changed for the worse. Digital interactions, devoid of nuance and understanding, further complicate discussion. We may believe that we are superior because our opinions are the “right” ones, and in the future avoid conversations with those whose opinions differ from ours, sending us into a never-ending echo chamber.

In I’m Just Saying, author Milan Kordestani shows us that although challenging conversations can be unpleasant, they can also help us grow. Sometimes, people inspire us to change how we speak, making us better communicators in the process as we search to find common ground with those with whom we disagree. Kordestani uses contemporary case studies and personal experience to teach readers how to have constructive conversations by engaging in civil discourse—the idea that good-faith actors can reach consensus on any opinion-based disagreement. He discusses influential leaders and reflects on his successes and failures in creating The Doe, an online publication focused on civil discourse. He addresses the challenges that digital media consumption presents when seeking common ground—especially when people are only digitally connected.

Civil discourse, an essential part of democracy, is becoming rare in today's digital age. I’m Just Saying examines discourse's successes and the ways to rebuild it. Drawing from history, popular culture, and personal anecdotes, the book promotes effective civil discourse by providing practical advice and strategies for respect. Through story, I’m Just Saying offers insight and tools for politeness in a divided world.

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Endorsements

“While most business writers pontificate from the mountaintop, Fadell is pure Hemingway: on the front lines, in the trenches, showing us the scars he’s earned

“Tony has an uncanny ability to take his infinite wisdom and legacy of leadership, mentorship, innovation and success and break it down into a practical, no nonsense how-to-guide on what it means to build something with meaning that will endure.”

DANIEL EK,

Founder and CEO, Spotify

“Build is the new Bible for anyone interested in creating successful products and companies. Fadell’s frank account of an epic period in Silicon Valley is so engrossing you won't realize how much you have learned until the finish.”

RANDY KOMISAR,

Kleiner Perkins, Author of The Monk and the Riddle

“To build, to make, to design, is the biggest adventure one can embark on. Tony Fadell’s storytelling of how he built 21st century product icons is not just a fascinating read, it is also a manual we can all learn from. Sometimes funny, often irreverent and always insightful, there is a kinetic energy to BUILD that mirrors Tony’s drive to give us the future.”

YVES BEHAR,

Founder and CEO, fuseproject

“You owe it to yourself to benefit from Tony’s amazing journey and the advice he received from iconic mentors like Steve Jobs and Bill Campbell. Candid, often bold straight-talk that will help you immensely on your journey.”

BILL GURLEY,

General Partner, Benchmark

“Tony has created another lasting product. This time, his personal life and career journey articulated and captured in his style and words - valuable lessons from the lens of a serial innovator, a hard-driving founder, a CEO and mentor.”

JENNY LEE,

Managing Partner, GGV Capital

“While most business writers pontificate from the mountaintop, Fadell is pure Hemingway: on the front lines, in the trenches, showing us the scars he’s earned along the way. And this will perhaps be his true legacy: the C-Suite zombies he finally wakes up when a new generation puts a dent in the universe with bellies full of butterflies and this book in their hearts.”

SCOTT KEOGH,

President & CEO, Volkswagen Group of America

“Tony Fadell takes the reader on a rollercoaster ride revealing what it's really like to work in Silicon Valley and simultaneously providing a compelling instruction manual for anyone who wants to follow in his footsteps.”

JOHN MARKOFF,

Author of Machines of Loving Grace: The Quest for Common Ground Between Humans and Robots

“This is an insightful overview into Tony’s extraordinary life at the junction of the biggest technological revolution of humankind. It is an amazing blueprint on how creative thinkers can negotiate their way to making ideas come to life in the world.”

SIR DAVID ADJAYE OBE,

Architect

“Truly historic anecdotes, backstories and straight talk advice from a hall of fame entrepreneur who has seen and done it all. I thought I’d be too busy to read this book once. I read it twice. TWICE.”

JIM LANZONE,

CEO of Yahoo

“Tony is undoubtedly among the most authentic and impactful builders in the last few decades. When risk takers share insight, read it. In the case of Tony, read it twice. I enthusiastically recommend.”

TONY CONRAD,

Founder about.me, sphere and Partner, True Ventures

“Tony Fadell is the rare combination of engineer and entrepreneur, with the soul of a storyteller. Build takes you far away from the beige box and into the glistening white world of the man who gave us the iPod, iPhone, and NEST, while providing actionable advice for formulating, launching, scaling, and even selling a business.”

BENJAMIN CLYMER,

Founder of HODINKEE

“Tony’s compelling ‘advice encyclopedia’ includes tried-and-true rules of engagement that really work. Anyone who wants to be an entrepreneur — or understand the craft — should find this book to be an invaluable resource.”

MARY MEEKER,

Co-founder, BOND

“Fadell leaves no stone unturned in the art and science of turning ideas into reality. This book is pure muscle for the next generation of product leaders and outfits us all with actionable tactics. Absorb it deeply and then get to work.”

SCOTT BELSKY,

Founder of Behance, CPO, Adobe

“This isn’t your typical business book. It’s a loud, passionate, mission-driven anthem about how to build, from one of the greatest product designers of all time. If you want to learn something about how to start a company, be a CEO, design world-changing products, or build anything great: This is it, right here.”

STEVE VASSALLO,

General Partner, Foundation Capital

“Tony’s experience can be applied to any builder or creator anywhere in the world. The challenges are always the same and Tony shares a number of insights on how to navigate them.”

MICKY MALKA,

Managing Partner, Ribbit Capital

Who Is He? And How Did He Get Here?

Milan Kordestani is an entrepreneur, writer, and founder of several companies oriented toward giving individuals control over their own discourse and creation. Kordestani has launched companies that prioritize transparent practice, civil discourse, and respect for creatives.

They include: Nota (formerly known as The Doe), an anonymously published narrative publication launched in 2019 to promote civil discourse; Audo, the only personalized career-building destination that lets you learn skills and earn money at the same time; and Guin Records, an innovative record label that offers artist-friendly deals and helps purpose-driven lyricists to produce their visions while retaining control of their masters.

Kordestani has written for numerous online publications, including Rolling Stone, Huffington Post, Entrepreneur.com, ThriveGlobal, and other platforms. He regularly covers topics in entrepreneurship, self-help, startup culture, the environment, leadership, and media.

As an emerging thought leader and communicator, Kordestani is on an expedited trajectory to become a prominent, globalized voice for a new generation. He currently lives in Los Angeles, where he enjoys disruptive tech, green innovation, and purpose-driven music.

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